“They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”
— Carl W. Buechner
If you have out lived at least 3 years of being in a relationship as “one soul two bodies”; Congratulations! You now fit into the category of an “old couple” who is too comfortable with each other. Even if it means; having to cuddle while one of you is having serious human flatulence issues.
Well, I’m soooooooo single, my opinion doesn’t count. But YUCK, seriously!
Moving forward! You and your partner, who you probably call “hubby” by now, are prepared to live the rest of your lives together. It’s the best feeling in the world, isn’t it?
The moment when he has his arms around you, and you feel like love is the drug everyone needs to bring out the best in them? Isn’t it the moment you feel complete?
I’m very happy for each and every one of you, but honestly! I do much better when I’m not getting a hundred texts everyday. It’s less distracting, right single squad?
Never the less, if you are indulged in such a relationship, chances are, you have had at least 10 of these best moments and you’re prepared to share them with your children, as very proud, extremely romantic, and forever in love husband and wife.
Best Moments in Every Long Lasting Relationship
Perhaps, love is an immensely beautiful journey. One can just not cleave it into moments and embrace one little piece of feeling, while ignoring the others. It seems as if it’s a movie, where every role and every act is as important as the former and the latter.
However, there are always some moments that you are prepared to remember crystal clearly till you lose memory, itself!
1. The day he went down to his knees
This is the day that marks the beginning of your eternity in the relationship. The moment he bends down on his knees, holds your hand, looks right into you eyes, and quotes dramatically “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that’s what you’ve given me.” – The Notebook
This moment ……..everything S.T.O.P.S……..even your breath!
Despite the common culture of “the proposal” being all theatrical, many people prefer the casual way. Many times, it’s not even planned, and just happens in the moment. As this scenario varies from person to person, it does not lessen the impact it has on the hearts of many.
2. The famous “first kiss”
They say, a kiss doesn’t end on the lips, it flows to the heart.
I wouldn’t know that…. yet *falls on the floor and cries*
Apparently, the first kisses have been mostly all couples epitome of romantic moments. Many have shared that “nothing beats the feeling of the first kiss”
3. The incidental meeting
This is my personal favorite of all the love stories!
How two strangers meet at random places and form an unbreakable bond!
A friend of mine once told me that she met her husband in an elevator power shortage. They were stuck inside for 15 minutes. What’s surprising is, they didn’t meet after that for 2 years!
Such stories make me believe in miracles, fate and the exciting adventures that future holds!
4. “Let’s move in together”
Oh boy Oh boy OH boy! I WANT TO FALL IN LOVE!
I can’t imagine how I would react, if the man who I had so enormously fallen for, asked me this. I’d probably be so excited; I’d make a blooper! Like tripping from the sofa or jumping off the balcony.
Oh believe me that can happen!
5. The bobble!
This is that legendary moment when one of you makes a terribly hilarious boo-boo. The two of you have either just entered the relationship, or you’re still in the “does he like me” phase.
In both the cases, stupid silly mistakes are wayyy out of comfort zone
Until one fine day….
This will give one person a great grand laugh, and the other, a great GRAND HEART ACHE. It may seem like ‘it’s over”
But darling, relationship is itself a big blooper. It feeds on mistakes.
DON’T WORRY! If they truly love you, they will stick around.
6. When his parents subconsciously have become your parents
The moment your boyfriend’s mother invites you over, and treats you like her own daughter, is the moment you feel like world has merged with another world and……. it’s a huge mistake.
Yup! Mostly the girl freaks out!
However later! It hits! And it hits in the right spot.
I bet it’s a damn good feeling, to have the tenderness of two moms, and the endearment two dads!
7. The first fight-makeup battle
Let’s face it…. Fighting is important! And if none of the two argue, it means one of you is keeping it inside!
It’s like a baby’s diaper; “You got to change it before it stinks the life out you”
Most couples have shared that they grow stronger with every fight. Hence indeed! It’s a moment to cherish!
8. The road trip
This is my ultimate idea of a relationship! Travel with the love of your life, till you both run out of places to go!
But I can’t imagine the feeling of the very FIRST road trip!
The nerve wrecking feeling, the joyful laughter, the priceless memories and the journey hereafter!
I’ve heard a billion times, if you can travel in peace with him, marry him!
So the next time you’re confused over a man, you know what to do!
9. That moment she wins in Call of duty
You better put a ring on it!
10. The first downfall
Relationships are not just about the highs. As a matter of fact, they are much more about the lows. And when you fight through the downfall, you have unlocked a whole new level of love, and respect for each other.
It’s the easiest thing to admire two love birds from a distance, but relationship doesn’t come easy, just like any special thing won’t!
As Lisa Kleypas says “I had no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Happy hinging lovers!
Must Read why long distance relationships are good